God’s Prosperity

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God taught me some amazing financial lessons while I was a single parent. And I’m still learning though my kids are grown and out of the house. I wrote about my financial journey in God’s Prosperity.

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January 12, 2020January 18, 2020

Who Are You?

Who are you?

Day 10 journal of my 30 day Minimalist Challenge

On 1-5-2020, I was reminded that I need accountability. I never voiced this until recently.

My mother never checked on me because she knew I would land on my feet.

In listening to the audiobook,

13 Things Mentally Strong Women Don’t Do [electronic resource] / by Amy Morin,

I realized that I have been living my life this way… without accountability. I’m the one who checks on others. And I never required, requested or demanded that people look in on me… to check up on my status in one area or another.

Even my husband has seen me as a Super Woman! I did have two lady friends around 2014 who were good at checking up on me. And when they moved away, I was devastated. Though I couldn’t understsnd my deep grief over their departure.

It was stemmed back to the familial saying, “Nek’ka always lands on her feet”. These two ladies gave me what I was missing… then they were gone.

I mentioned this a few days ago, in my minimalist challenge blog, that I’ve hired a couple of coaches for 2020. The year for praises and not complaints. So I’m incorporating my own helps and hand holding.

I’ve had mentors over the past 20 years and while I was given assignments, so many other areas of my life were unattended to or overlooked.

In Amy’s book, she was relaying a story of how a women’s family of origin had nicknames for all the kids and she was living up to hers even subconsciously. This woman didn’t examine her life to see if that label resonated with who she identified as an individual.

And I never shook off that label, “she’ll always land on her feet”. It’s good to know or believe that. But how is that suppose to happen?

When I land on my feet, are my ankles sometimes twisted? Did I break my legs landing on my feet because I had no assistance? I never saw negative in that statement. I was just doing my best to live up to that expectation.

Don’t get me wrong, I have some really good friends that I can call when needed. And we’re all busy with our daily lives. When I see them, we all get caught up on the latest happenings and have a good laugh. And then I go back to my world of “landing on my feet”… alone, as it were.

What childhood or early adult nicknames or statements are you trying to live up to? Do they resonate with your true identity, your core being? Write your comments below.
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January 1, 2020January 12, 2020

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July 8, 2019

Who is changing things in your life?

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God took care of Jacob though Laban changed things constantly.

Who is changing things in your life?

I usually will stop dealing with people if they change their mind or with the agreement we had, they change it too many times. The scripture says to not meddle with them given to change. (Proverbs 24:21)

There is also another scripture that says a double minded man shall receive nothing. (JAMES 1:7-8)

Do you have people around you who seem to flow with the current wind of doctrine about life, finances, relationship, future plans and so on? And it could just be that they are listening to wrong thoughts of others or their own mind. Double mindedness is not good.

It could be seen as a crazy maker. Making the people around them crazy. You could be married to this person, it could be a friend or even a boss. I’ve had bosses that change their mind so much that an employee never knew what to think or what to expect.

Genesis 31 was an encouragement to me today in light of so many changes in my personal and business life. Changes being made for me or about my plans.

What is the solution? If you are not a Christian, I want to tell you that there is hope in Jesus.

If you are a Christian, I want to remind you that the Holy Spirit can guide you into all truth. (John 16:13) There might be some truth in what an unstable person is saying and doing. Though they are confused or double minded, there could be some truth on one side of what they are presenting.

So with the story of Jacob from Genesis 31, Laban spoke truth that Jacob’s wives were Laban’s daughters. Laban did pay Jacob something though he changed it multiple times.

And the biggest truth from this story and most important is that God never left Jacob. God intervene and let Jacob know when enough was enough and that it was time to go… to leave Laban.

Everyone’s threshhold is different for how much messiness they can handle and endure. And God can give strength and wisdom in the midst of the trials and tribulations without removing you. It’s called GRACE for the situation.

This could be seen as a good reason to become a Christian if you are not one yet! You might need some supernatural help and grace for your situation. God wants to be your defender! Let Him in by accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Confess that you believe Jesus is Lord, that he was sent to earth for our redemption, that he died for our sins and that God in Heaven rose Him from the dead to soon after rise into Heaven to sit on the right hand of the Father. (Romans 10:9-10)

If you are already a Christian, cry out to God for a solution, for relief and even deliverance in his timing. God hears our prayers. He sees our pain and anguish. God will protect us if we put our trust in Him.

In fact, we know of people who seem to be protected and they are not Christians. Why? Because the scriptures in Matthew 5:45 says that he rains on the just and the unjust. He shines his sun on the just and the unjust. But we will all have a day of reckoning for the things we have done to other and things done in this life. Romans 14:12. Hebrews 9:27 says, it is appointed unto man once to die then the judgement. And another place, it says we will give an account of every idle word on judgement day. (Matthew 12:36)

Why not live this life with supernatural help from God Almighty instead of battling these demons alone? Why not surrender to Jesus to be Lord of your life and this specific area that you are being harrassed in? God told us to cast all of our cares on Him for He cares for us. (1 Peter 5:7 )

The story of Jacob and Laban is in Genesis 31:5, 7, 12, 29, 42 (KJV):

Verse 5 reads, And said unto them, I see your father’s countenance, that it is not toward me as before; but the God of my father hath been with me.

7 And your father hath deceived me, and changed my wages ten times; but God suffered him not to hurt me.

12 And he said, Lift up now thine eyes, and see, all the rams which leap upon the cattle are ringstraked, speckled, and grisled: for I have seen all that Laban doeth unto thee.

29 It is in the power of my hand to do you hurt: but the God of your father spake unto me yesternight, saying, Take thou heed that thou speak not to Jacob either good or bad.

42 Except the God of my father, the God of Abraham, and the fear of Isaac, had been with me, surely thou hadst sent me away now empty. God hath seen mine affliction and the labour of my hands, and rebuked thee yesternight.

God took care of Jacob though Laban changed things constantly.

My name is Nek’ka Migel and it has been my please to write an encouraging note to those going it alone or needing just a little bit more help. Try surrendering all areas of your life to God who created the Heaven and the Earth.

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September 20, 2018October 9, 2018

Are you a patient with your friends?

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Are you a patient with your friends?

Do you find yourself “always” spilling your guts out to your friends, co-workers, family members and even strangers?

Do you really think they have an answer for you or that they care to hear all of these problems you have?

Sometimes, we share out of desperation. But I challenge you to find the right times to share and the right people. Don’t be everyone’s “patient”.

Some people will get tired of it. Others could be using it as gossip material. Others feel better when they hear of your problems.

Start distinguishing who really cares and who is safe to share some things with…and not all things in your life. If you are an open book with everyone, you might want to close some of those chapters.

I challenge you to check your past conversations to see if you have been positioning yourself as the patient in other people’s lives, whether consciously or unconsciously.

Wake up! This is not a dream but real life.

I was recently convicted of this myself.

Here are a few rules of what to do. I believe you will see from these rules what not to do.

1. Think about the person you are with. Do they care about your personal life? Do they care about your business life? Do they care about your money issues?

2. Do they have answers for the current struggle you are in? If they do, is this the appropriate time to talk about it? Have you asked their permission to discuss it or have they given you permission to discuss it?

3. How do you feel after you share your “stuff” with them? Bad, worse, better or the same?

If you feel worse, that might be a sign they are the wrong person to share this situation with, and you may need to reevaluate your sharing with this person. At least, the parts that you just shared. Some people require more filters than others. Meaning, you can share many things with some people, but not all things with all people.

You can find another who is MORE qualified to share with.

Speaking things out loud can help you. But choose your listeners wisely.

I hope these three tips are helpful and will help you to not chase away your friends, co-workers or family members. There are plenty of good counselors and psychologists and listening volunteers that can listen to you if you just need to speak about your issues. There are plenty of people to help you find solutions that might not be your personal friend, co-worker or family member. If you suspect abuse, you can call the National Abuse Hotline, 24 hours, to talk to an anonymous person.

As a Stephen Minister, I am trained to listen to others and not try to fix them. As a Chaplain with Chaplains for Businesses, I am trained to pray for spiritual guidance with a small business owners. As a former single mom of 16 years, I can be a good listening ear pointing the single parent to other referrals for their situation…IF I DON’T HAVE AN ANSWER for them.

So, the next time you find yourself wanting to tell the gory details, think about who you are speaking with. Do they care? Can they help? Is this the right time to talk to them? How did you feel afterwards?

Who’s the patient? You or them? Give the people around you this article so they can stop being YOUR patient. I bet you have some patients, too!

My name is Nek’ka Migel and it has been my pleasure to share some of life challenges with you. I hope you got something out of reading this article.

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