Hello. My name is Nek’ka Migel. I was a single mom for 16 years. I homeschooled my 2 children from Kindergarten to 12th grade. When they graduated from High School they went directly into college. One got her 2 year certificate in Baking and the other has 4 years and running studying Mechanical Engineer. Both daughters have had their own businesses.
One has done designer baking and the other has a web design business. I would say they were successfully released into the world with many relational skills and the ability to live on their own successfully without my paying their way or having them move back home after college. I am very happy for their success and their ability to make things work for their lives.
Consulting for Single Parents is a dba of Single Moms Unite!, LLC. There is a Facebook page that you and your friends can like: click here. There is a closed Facebook group for single moms: click here and a closed group for single dads: click here.
There are 5 areas for Single Parent consultation.
1. Emotional and Spiritual Stability
2. Child Rearing and Parenting skills
4. Business ideas/Job helps
This consultation process is to help guide you to make your own choices out of the tools I present or the thoughts that come to your mind as I speak and present short stories and local resources available. I am not a Licensed Counselor but can refer you to another place if that is what you need. I am more of a Peer Consultant who has experienced being a single parents and have victory over many areas in my life. I am happy to share these experiences with you as they pertain to your life’s upcoming victories.
The reason I charge a nominal fee is because I have discovered that many people do not respect free. But when there is “skin in the game”, they stay committed to the process or at least to begin the process. Also, my time is valuable and if I travel to meet you in a coffee house, the gas in my car, cost dollars.
If you are here, you have decided to do the work necessary to get you to your next level. So let me hear from you what you think you need. The purpose of having one to one consultations is to get specific information to you for your own life.
Area 1: Emotional and Spiritual stability.
What makes me a good authority on this matter is because I have stable emotions and I can share some ways to think and pray, if you are a praying person, to arrive at stable emotions. I can be a peer consultant for PTSD as I am on my own journey and have made great strides in setting healthy boundaries and being able to enforce them. I can be a peer consultant for alcoholism. I have been 30 years without abusing alcohol and the temptation to drink out of necessity has been gone for 30 years.
I have been a Christian for 30 years and have a good working knowledge of the Christian Holy bible and I have a good relationship with Our Father in Heaven. So I believe I can be a good support in this area as well. For more information on the ministry that I have done in my 30 years of being a Christian, I will refer you to the Video Resume for my being a Prayer Intercessor. I also have a written copy if desired in my Chaplains for Businesses Newsletter.
So, what is your why for wanting to have greater emotional and spiritual well being? How would this stability help you to get to your next level in life? Part of this consultation requires you to think about your life and where you want to go. My job is to help you in the good direction that you have chosen already. So let’s get started.
Across the nation, there are a variety of organizations that can help you.
1. Stephen’s Ministry is designed to come along a gender to gender person going through an issue of life that is not too extreme yet it might be painful such as the death of a spouse or other love one, a divorce or you just can’t seem to keep working.
2. Celebrate Recovery helps a person deal with their hurts, habits and hangups. It is here that I gained a year of setting healthy boundaries and I continue to work on procrastination and fear. They also help with alcohol and substance abuse like a secular AA meeting might. Celebrate Recovery is Christian based.
3. National Abuse Hotline is 800-799-7233. The call is anonymous and they are trained very well to hear your situation before responding verbally on the phone. When I have called, they have never steered me wrong.
4. Healing Rooms are all over the USA. This is another place you can get Christian prayer in addition to the prayer time you might have at your local church. All Prayer Intercessors are vetted before they are allowed to serve.
And in your individual city there are other organizations that give a person a hand up. In the Boise area, there is
1. Weekly prayer available at Sacred Heart Catholic Church. They offer Christian prayers.
2. F.A.C.E.S. for classes on abuse and self defense. 208-577-4403
3. WCA for the abused woman or man, call 208-343-3688. They have a number of resources such as a financial literacy class and a court advocate to make suggestions for how you can get further help on your legal case.
I am also familiar with a number of church denominations and would be happy to share that knowledge if you are looking for a new church home.
Here are a few questions to ask yourself before I send the official survey that you will email back to me before we do the one to one consultation.
What is your purpose in life? Do you know your top priorities in life? What is your vision?
This concludes the introduction to the first area of Consulting for Single Parents in the area of Emotional and Spiritual Stability. Stay tuned for the introduction to Child Rearing/Parenting.
As you can probably see, these questions and scenarios could fit any people group regardless of marital status. My why in life is to give back to single parents. I was helped so much as a single mom that I want to help other single parents. I have already helped a number of single parents and maybe, just maybe, I can help you, too.
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This is a Video Resume for being a Prayer Intercessor at Chaplains for Businesses.
With a Bachelor’s in Business Management and 20 plus years as a Prayer Intercessor, Nek’ka would love to offer Spiritual guidance along as well as prayer with the business owner seeking godly business strategies, wisdom for decisions, upcoming events and even a change in employees. Click here to contact Nek’ka. Watch the video resume of my experiences and giftings as a prayer intercessor.
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History of Faith
Today, I was reading in Create Your World by Patricia King. On Page 156 she said something that resonated with my spirit. She was writing about a hard prayer request. It was the first of it’s kind for her. After God answered the prayer request with an affirmative, she described it as a:
“History of faith in God”.
He had met their every need as requested.
Patricia also considered it, “A Promotion in our faith level”. p. 156, Create Your World C2012
What a concept?!?!?
I think about all the times I had to move as a single moms. At first it was with fear and trepidation. The first move from Tennessee was hard in that I was leaving my husband who had recently served me with divorce papers. I could not fathom how to get that moving truck to Ohio. So the men in my family came to help drive the truck all those miles for me.
Two years later in 1998, I was moving from Ohio to North Carolina. I still didn’t have the courage yet to drive that truck nor did I have all the money to move. A brother and sister CDL driving team from church offered to drive my big moving truck from Ohio to North Carolina. And all the moving money did not come until after I was already loading the truck. It came in the sale of furniture as the LORD had directed me to sell.
I find it interesting that the LORD was planning to move me because he sent me to these place with a time limit but he never allowed me to save up for the move…not that I could have afforded to save for it, as a single mom.
Then the most stressful move of all…from North Carolina to California. I had fleeced the LORD to make sure I was suppose to move to California and he answered the fleece. He told me to sell my Toyota Camry for the funds to move but the person picked to buy my car, refused. God had to provide another way. I was in tears trying to obey what I believed God was saying. I believed I was to move my moving date up! So I did. And thankfully, God sent another deliverer to help. Another gentleman bought my car and gave me a loan for the moving truck. All this happened just a half an hour before the moving truck company was going to close. Talk about cutting it close.
I was able to leave early as I felt directed and lo and behold when I arrived in California, a dear heart saw my struggling everyday with my young 4 and 5 year old girls, trying to find a job, find another car, looking for a place to stay and a school for my kindergartner. This young man in college himself said he would give me a gift of $2,000 to help my move. If I had not left North Carolina early, all these things might not have worked out as they did with this financial blessing of a gift.
So I spent a few years in California and God kept opening door. Long story short, I ended up living in two different cities in California before moving to Arizona. Then the HISTORY OF FAITH IN GOD kicked in. I believe I had a PROMOTION IN MY FAITH LEVEL. I was believing that if God was wanting me to move from Arizona to Idaho, he was going to provide.
So it kinda went like this. I was still a single mom…not able to save up for the move. My car had been broke for months. I knew if God got my car fixed that a move was probably going to happen. When I got a new car in the first California city that I lived in, God moved me shortly thereafter. When I got a new to me car in the second city in California, God moved me just months afterwards, as well. And here I was with a broke car using someone else’s truck for me and my homeschooled girls.
God gave the 4th mechanic the know how to fix my car and told me he wanted me to attend a Healing Conference in Idaho. That seemed insurmountable to believe for 1,000 dollars to attend a Healing Conference. So I prayed about it every morning for two weeks. After two weeks of prayer, the LORD unctioned me that he wanted me to move to Idaho, to this same city where the conference was being held. I was undone, to say the least. So I kept praying.
So what happened was that I prayed for first things first. I prayed for an apartment. Found one.
I prayed for the funds to put down a deposit. My two girls got a job making enough for the down payment. But it was their choice to donate it to the cause and they did.
Then I prayed for the money for the moving truck which was 3 times the cost from previous years. God provided quickly. Then after it was all said and done, just with the other things needed, I said, God, if you don’t provide, then I get to stay in Arizona. And you know what happened next, I got the last amount of money I needed for the gas in the truck at $5 a gallon in 2008.
This move to Idaho was the easiest move ever. And for once, when I got to the new destination, I was not stressing or grieving over how I was going to get the truck unpacked in a day…like right away as I had wanted and expected in previous cities. I thought, our boxes are only as heavy as me and my girls could lift. We could manage if we had to with just the three of us and take our time unloading that truck.
But no! There were 11 people who showed up, half of whom I met at the Healing Conference that I had faith to attend and the others were their spouses or relatives. God is good!
Rest in Him and he will make things work.
If God wants something to happen, go along with Him and His strategies.
Don’t fight it. Don’t kick against the goads, as it were.
Will you begin a History of Faith in God?
Will you receive a Promotion in YOUR Faith Level?
Sincerely and In Christ Name,