Who is changing things in your life?

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God took care of Jacob though Laban changed things constantly.

Who is changing things in your life?

I usually will stop dealing with people if they change their mind or with the agreement we had, they change it too many times. The scripture says to not meddle with them given to change. (Proverbs 24:21)

There is also another scripture that says a double minded man shall receive nothing. (JAMES 1:7-8)

Do you have people around you who seem to flow with the current wind of doctrine about life, finances, relationship, future plans and so on? And it could just be that they are listening to wrong thoughts of others or their own mind. Double mindedness is not good.

It could be seen as a crazy maker. Making the people around them crazy. You could be married to this person, it could be a friend or even a boss. I’ve had bosses that change their mind so much that an employee never knew what to think or what to expect.

Genesis 31 was an encouragement to me today in light of so many changes in my personal and business life. Changes being made for me or about my plans.

What is the solution? If you are not a Christian, I want to tell you that there is hope in Jesus.

If you are a Christian, I want to remind you that the Holy Spirit can guide you into all truth. (John 16:13) There might be some truth in what an unstable person is saying and doing. Though they are confused or double minded, there could be some truth on one side of what they are presenting.

So with the story of Jacob from Genesis 31, Laban spoke truth that Jacob’s wives were Laban’s daughters. Laban did pay Jacob something though he changed it multiple times.

And the biggest truth from this story and most important is that God never left Jacob. God intervene and let Jacob know when enough was enough and that it was time to go… to leave Laban.

Everyone’s threshhold is different for how much messiness they can handle and endure. And God can give strength and wisdom in the midst of the trials and tribulations without removing you. It’s called GRACE for the situation.

This could be seen as a good reason to become a Christian if you are not one yet! You might need some supernatural help and grace for your situation. God wants to be your defender! Let Him in by accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Confess that you believe Jesus is Lord, that he was sent to earth for our redemption, that he died for our sins and that God in Heaven rose Him from the dead to soon after rise into Heaven to sit on the right hand of the Father. (Romans 10:9-10)

If you are already a Christian, cry out to God for a solution, for relief and even deliverance in his timing. God hears our prayers. He sees our pain and anguish. God will protect us if we put our trust in Him.

In fact, we know of people who seem to be protected and they are not Christians. Why? Because the scriptures in Matthew 5:45 says that he rains on the just and the unjust. He shines his sun on the just and the unjust. But we will all have a day of reckoning for the things we have done to other and things done in this life. Romans 14:12. Hebrews 9:27 says, it is appointed unto man once to die then the judgement. And another place, it says we will give an account of every idle word on judgement day. (Matthew 12:36)

Why not live this life with supernatural help from God Almighty instead of battling these demons alone? Why not surrender to Jesus to be Lord of your life and this specific area that you are being harrassed in? God told us to cast all of our cares on Him for He cares for us. (1 Peter 5:7 )

The story of Jacob and Laban is in Genesis 31:5, 7, 12, 29, 42 (KJV):

Verse 5 reads, And said unto them, I see your father’s countenance, that it is not toward me as before; but the God of my father hath been with me.

7 And your father hath deceived me, and changed my wages ten times; but God suffered him not to hurt me.

12 And he said, Lift up now thine eyes, and see, all the rams which leap upon the cattle are ringstraked, speckled, and grisled: for I have seen all that Laban doeth unto thee.

29 It is in the power of my hand to do you hurt: but the God of your father spake unto me yesternight, saying, Take thou heed that thou speak not to Jacob either good or bad.

42 Except the God of my father, the God of Abraham, and the fear of Isaac, had been with me, surely thou hadst sent me away now empty. God hath seen mine affliction and the labour of my hands, and rebuked thee yesternight.

God took care of Jacob though Laban changed things constantly.

My name is Nek’ka Migel and it has been my please to write an encouraging note to those going it alone or needing just a little bit more help. Try surrendering all areas of your life to God who created the Heaven and the Earth.

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Single Parent Gathering Jan 12th at Noon

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Single Parent Gathering Jan 12th at Noon

Gathering this month: January 12th, Saturday, noon to 2 p.m. for single parents and their kids.

Susan Ikeagwu will share with us about Restore Missions and the work they do here in the valley. 

Below are the links to the landing pages to contact me for a one to one meeting or sign up for specific newsletter(s):

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Book a one to one session with Nek’ka today, in person or on the phone! Click here to hear my audio introduction.

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In Christ Name,

Nek’ka Migel

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I Just Found Out A Reason To Have Discipline

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I Just Found A Reason To Have Discipline.

I just found out that discipline is related to self respect, self-esteem and self confidence. I was so shocked to discover this.  I don’t know why.  But I was.

I just discovered that discipline shows up in self esteem, self respect and self confidence

Some days, I have really good mornings when I wake up before it’s time to go out the door, two or three hours later. Those days that I got up on time and I did my morning rituals, I felt good, at the top of my game, even.

I thought it was obedience to God that was making me feel good and feel at the top of my game or at least close to being at the top of my game. I had no idea that behind that obedience was discipline that was causing me to be able to respect myself and to feel good that day.

Time out for random obedience… Keep your word!

I’m currently listening to Brian Tracy’s audiobook, called No Excuses!:  the power of self-discipline.   Brian Tracy is the one that opened my eyes to discipline being the key to having good self esteem.

Here is a quote from page 34 of Brian Tracy’s book: 

“Everyone wants to be successful. Everyone wants to be healthy, happy, thin, and rich. But most people are not willing to pay the price. Occasionally, they may be willing to pay part of the price, but they are not willing to pay the whole price. They always hold back. They always have some excuse or rationalization for not disciplining themselves to do everything that they need to do to achieve their goals.”

I have struggled with keeping my word to myself throughout the week and months prior. I’m aware of it.  I know that I need to fix it.  But what to do was a mystery to me.  I thought I could self-will myself into keeping my word to myself more regularly.   

Do you struggle with keeping your word to yourself?

Keep your word to yourself and others!

I recently learned, too, that what I do or don’t do in an area of my life or business affects another area. So I am challenged and convicted to work on self discipline. To work on discipline, in general. To raise my self-esteem and self-respect through discipline is important. 

What a concept! I had no idea that discipline was related to self-esteem, self respect and even self-confidence.  I’m interested in hearing what else Brian Tracy has to say on his CDs  because I am just on the first audiobook CD when I became aware of this concept.

Break’s Over! No More Excuses!

This is going to revolutionize my life. 

Break’s Over!!!

It’s truth!  And one thing I always say is to be on the side of Truth.   This gives me motivation to be more discipline because I want better self esteem, more self respect and higher self confidence with the help of the LORD, of course.  All good gifts do come from the LORD! (James 1:17)

Be on the side of truth: Not his side, her side, nor their side

Read the following excerpts from just one webpage on Discipline and Self Confidence. 

There is a close relationship between low self-confidence and lack of discipline. …the importance of following through on your commitments… Whenever you don’t, your self-confidence suffers.

There are reasons people don’t follow through on their commitments but most people avoid even thinking about these reasons. The same pattern of behavior continues and the self-confidence continues to go down.

If we really want to know why we fail to keep commitments, we need to look closely at our behavior.

When we fail to keep our promises, we find reasons to justify our slack behavior. We believe these excuses. But these are not the real reasons we fail to deliver.

The truth is we could keep nearly all of our commitments if we were willing. But we just do not want to pay the price required to fulfill our promises.

Most likely the price involves significant self-discipline. Most people want self-confidence without the discipline.

Most motivational speakers tell us that self-confidence is all about self-belief. They are right. Overcoming low self-confidence is about positive self-belief.

They imply that our behavior doesn’t matter. Say and think positively, they suggest, and we will painlessly go from low self-confidence to being self-confident.

Affirmations are fine but for them to work, we need to follow up the affirmations with action that completely reflects those affirmations. That takes self-discipline.”  Read the rest of article by clicking below.

https://northbrisbanepsychologists.com.au/low-self-confidence-and-self-discipline/

Here is another article from the internet: I googled self discipline and self-confidence:

“The Relationship Between Self Discipline and Self Esteem
There is a direct relationship between self-discipline and self esteem.

The more you practice self-mastery and self-control the more you like and value your self. The more you discipline yourself the greater is your sense of self-respect and personal pride.  

The more you practice self-discipline the better your self-image. You see yourself and think about yourself in a more positive way. You feel happier and more powerful as a person.

Napoleon Hill said that, “Self-discipline is the master key to riches.”

Let’s look at the definition of Discipline—

Training that corrects, molds, or perfects.
Control gained by enforcing obedience or order; orderly pattern of behavior; self-control.
No wonder we avoid discipline……we don’t have to do anything we don’t want to.

Right? Say yes…………..

What is discipline?

Doing the things you don’t want to do.
Doing something that needs to be done whether you want to or not.
It means you have to set things to do daily and you actually have to do them!
Someone who sticks with it and keeps going for it regardless of what obstacles lie before them.

Be stubborn!

Keep your goals in front of you. Review them and update them.
Box yourself in. Take away your choices. We have too many choices!
Start small.”

Read the article in full here: 

The Relationship Between Self Discipline and Self Esteem

I hope this article was helpful to you.  Feel free to pass it on and check out more of Brian Tracy’s books.  This one was fascinating to me, quite helpful and even painful to listen to parts of it.  I am a work in progress.  Are you? 

My name is Nek’ka Migel and it has been quite enlightening for me to write this article for my betterment.  I hope you get some takeaways that you can use.   

Sincerely and

in Christ Name,

Nek’ka M.

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Nek’ka Migel was a single stay at home mother for 16 years, homeschooling 2 of her 3 children from K to 12th grade.  Her children went on to college and have done quite well for themselves.

Through Consulting for Single Parents, Nek’ka can help a single parent in 5 different areas: 

Emotional and Spiritual Stability, Child Rearing/parenting, Wardrobe/dieting/exercising, Business ideas/job helps, Financial/Budgeting plans. 

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Information on Area 1 for Emotional and Spiritual Stability can be found here.  I will add information for Areas 2 to 5 as I get it written up.  


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