It was funny but not at the time

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IT WAS funny but not really.

It was funny but not at the time!

I was on my way to help out a single mom, and got stuck in a ditch.

I wonder how many times this has happened to you? You set out to do good and run into a snag, a snafu, a little bit of trouble.

 

You want to help. You want to be of assistance but you can’t even get to them before you fall in the ditch.

And then the single mom helps me out of the ditch!  Wow!  What an amazing thing! I’ll tell you what; leave it to a single mom to not only get me out of a ditch but to have the know-how to get me out.   Seriously folks, my tires were spinning and spinning trying to drive up out of this ditch before dear single mom came to my rescue.

So thank you so much, Dear Single Moms, for all that you do for your families, for other people and at the same time managed to keep your wits about you.

And a big THANK YOU to the dear single mom who helped me out of a ditch, tonight.

Thanks for Stopping By.

Sincerely and 

In Christ Name,

Nek’ka Migel

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Are You Undefeatable as a Single Parent?

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Are You Undefeatable as a Single Parent?

Being a single parent doesn’t mean you’ve been defeated.

Here is one single mom’s story:

 

When we were little, we knew single moms existed.  Maybe we were raised by one or maybe the neighbor was.

There is no one in this world that could have grown up without knowing a single mom but no one knows what it really means until you are one.

No one knows the emotions, the trials and the heartache that comes with it unless you’ve been one yourself. No one understands the sacrifices that we’ve had to take and the choices we have to make on a daily basis.

A lot of single moms relate to one another but not everyone shares the same story.  No one knows how it really is and the things we have to do in order to survive; not only financially but emotionally.  Some people do, in fact, choose to be a single mom and some don’t.  Some never thought it’d be them and there’s so much stigma and misunderstanding when it comes to being a single mom.  It is also very admirable and inspiring. The things that we do for our children are definitely impressive. We don’t always think so but when you were raised by one, you realize how much you didn’t appreciate.

My mother became a single mom the moment her husband died and again years later when my sister and I were born. She had my brother to help but the things that she did, I admire it so much more now.  My biggest complaint was that she worked all the time and that she left me home alone, frequently.  I understand now, she felt she had no other choice.  One thing that always stands out is that she always prepared meals for us and had a clean home.  She managed to do so much with such a busy schedule. She managed to take us to the beach no matter how tired she was.  We’re talking about a woman who was left to do it all on her own with three children and then she had two more later down the road.  Her only support system was my brother and she worked so hard for my baby sister and I.  She did what she had to do, like any mother or any parent out there.

My mother taught me a lot and I didn’t realize it until I became a single mom myself.  I have two children and I barely manage to keep it together.  I barely manage to keep my home clean and make dinner every day.  I think back and I don’t know how she did it.  I have learned so much along the years and I continue learning and growing so much more. We always think we know everything until we realize that we don’t.  I have had to spend more time at work than with my children.  I have missed milestones but I only did  it to maintain a roof over their head and to put clothes on their back.  We don’t have much but we have each other.  I feel like I have failed them so much.  Sometimes, I feel like I’m burdening them with my poor decisions and I feel like I don’t do enough.  I feel like they deserve better but then they tell me how happy they are and how much they love me. That’s when I realize that they see the beauty in me and their life. They don’t need material things…they just need their mom.  Maybe I’ll never be able to be perfect and maybe, I won’t always do enough.  But, they love me beyond my imperfections.

One of the hardest things for me as a single mom is not really the “having no partner”.

It is actually the fear of the unknown.

Sometimes I just don’t know if I’ll have the strength to do things. To be honest, I don’t know how I manage to do most things.  I just do it.  Childcare is expensive but I still have to work.  I have to juggle so many things on my own with little to no family support. I get to deal with all of the good and bad days.  At times, it feels like I have no one that understands.  It’s tough to know that two children depend on me and one mistake can make a great impact.  However, we have gone through so much together and as I look back I am amazed at how far I’ve come.

I don’t have the answers to everything but when I see another single mom, I get it.  I understand the struggles and the hardship.  Now that my mom has passed, I understand her so much more.  I love her even more. Single moms are definitely strong.  I know the love and the happiness their children bring to them is what pushes them to work so hard.  As mothers, we all do what we have to for our children especially in this world that makes us feel like it’s just trying to tear us apart.

I understand now, (all) the things that I didn’t understand that my mom had to do for us.

I see now that being a single mom is hard, overwhelming but very rewarding. We chose to step up and to do what’s right for our children.  The feelings and emotions that come with it are completely normal.  We may mess up a lot but our kids focus on the love they have for us and they don’t judge us. They don’t judge because they love us. Maybe they don’t understand what we have to do as parents but one day they will.

It may not always be easy and we have our struggles just like everyone else.  One thing I know now is that no one can love and do more for our children than us.  We may have wanted things to turn out a different way.  Or we may have chosen this route.

Being a single mother doesn’t mean you’ve been defeated; it means you’re undefeatable!

 

Natasha is a single mom in the closed group of Single Moms Unite!, LLC.  

It has been my pleasure sharing Natasha’s story.  For more stories from Natasha and other moms, check back or subscribe to the Consulting for Single Parent newsletter here.  My name is Nek’ka Migel and I look forward to serving more single parents in the Treasure Valley and beyond!

Below are the links to the landing pages to contact me for a one to one meeting or sign up for specific newsletter(s):

Chaplains for Businesses | Consulting for Single Parents | Choose to Succeed Referral Marketing

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Thanks for Stopping By.

Sincerely and 

In Christ Name,

Nek’ka Migel

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Nek’ka Migel was a single stay at home mother for 16 years, homeschooling 2 of her 3 children from K to 12th grade.  Her children went on to college and have done quite well for themselves.

Through Consulting for Single Parents, Nek’ka can help a single parent in 5 different areas: 

Emotional and Spiritual Stability, Child Rearing/parenting, Wardrobe/dieting/exercising, Business ideas/job helps, Financial/Budgeting plans. 

Sign up for the newsletter by clicking on Consulting for Single Parent link here.

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Consulting for Single Parent on Emotional and Spiritual Stability

Information on Area 1 for Emotional and Spiritual Stability can be found here.  I will add information for Areas 2 to 5 as I get it written up.  


Donate to Single Moms Unite!, LLC that provides scholarships for Single Parents to benefit from Consulting for Single Parents as well as helping them to get their legal Wills done to state guardianship of their minor kids.

This was my first attempt at making an automated” video.  Thanks to Window’s Movie Maker, this baby boomer has made a video.  I hope to improve over time.  Meanwhile, this is just a short ad for Consulting for Single Parents.  After you’ve watched it, please leave a comment. 

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In Christ Name,

Nek’ka Migel

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Consulting for Single Parent on Emotional and Spiritual Stability

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Hello.  My name is Nek’ka Migel.  I was a single mom for 16 years.  I homeschooled my 2 children from Kindergarten to 12th grade.  When they graduated from High School they went directly into college.  One got her 2 year certificate in Baking and the other has 4 years and running studying Mechanical Engineer.  Both daughters have had their own businesses.

One has done designer baking and the other has a web design business.  I would say they were successfully released into the world with many relational skills and the ability to live on their own successfully without my paying their way or having them move back home after college.  I am very happy for their success and their ability to make things work for their lives.

Consulting for Single Parents is a dba of Single Moms Unite!, LLC.  There is a Facebook page that you and your friends can like: click here.  There is a closed Facebook group for single moms: click here and a closed group for single dads: click here

If you would like to join my email newsletter list, go here to sign up.  

There are 5 areas for Single Parent consultation.

1. Emotional and Spiritual Stability

2. Child Rearing and Parenting skills

3. Wardrobe/Dieting/Exercising

4. Business ideas/Job helps

5. Financial/budgeting

This consultation process is to help guide you to make your own choices out of the tools I present or the thoughts that come to your mind as I speak and present short stories and local resources available.  I am not a Licensed Counselor but can refer you to another place if that is what you need.  I am more of a Peer Consultant who has experienced being a single parents and have victory over many areas in my life.  I am happy to share these experiences with you as they pertain to your life’s upcoming victories.

The reason I charge a nominal fee is because I have discovered that many people do not respect free.  But when there is “skin in the game”, they stay committed to the process or at least to begin the process.  Also, my time is valuable and if I travel to meet you in a coffee house, the gas in my car, cost dollars.

If you are here, you have decided to do the work necessary to get you to your next level.   So let me hear from you what you think you need.  The purpose of having one to one consultations is to get specific information to you for your own life.

Area 1:  Emotional and Spiritual stability.

What makes me a good authority on this matter is because I have stable emotions and I can share some ways to think and pray, if you are a praying person, to arrive at stable emotions.  I can be a peer consultant for PTSD as I am on my own journey and have made great strides in setting healthy boundaries and being able to enforce them.  I can be a peer consultant for alcoholism. I have been 30 years without abusing alcohol and the temptation to drink out of necessity has been gone for 30 years.

I have been a Christian for 30 years and have a good working knowledge of the Christian Holy bible and I have a good relationship with Our Father in Heaven.  So I believe I can be a good support in this area as well.  For more information on the ministry that I have done in my 30 years of being a Christian, I will refer you to the Video Resume for my being a Prayer Intercessor.  I also have a written copy if desired in my Chaplains for Businesses Newsletter.

So, what is your why for wanting to have greater emotional and spiritual well being?   How would this stability help you to get to your next level in life?  Part of this consultation requires you to think about your life and where you want to go.  My job is to help you in the good direction that you have chosen already.   So let’s get started.

Across the nation, there are a variety of organizations that can help you.

1. Stephen’s Ministry is designed to come along a gender to gender person going through an issue of life that is not too extreme yet it might be painful such as the death of a spouse or other love one, a divorce or you just can’t seem to keep working.

2. Celebrate Recovery helps a person deal with their hurts, habits and hangups.  It is here that I gained a year of setting healthy boundaries and I continue to work on procrastination and fear.  They also help with alcohol and substance abuse like a secular AA meeting might.   Celebrate Recovery is Christian based.

3. National Abuse Hotline is 800-799-7233.  The call is anonymous and they are trained very well to hear your situation before responding verbally on the phone. When I have called, they have never steered me wrong.

4. Healing Rooms are all over the USA.  This is another place you can get Christian prayer in addition to the prayer time you might have at your local church.  All Prayer Intercessors are vetted before they are allowed to serve.

And in your individual city there are other organizations that give a person a hand up.  In the Boise area, there is

1. Weekly prayer available at Sacred Heart Catholic Church.  They offer Christian prayers.

2. F.A.C.E.S. for classes on abuse and self defense. 208-577-4403

3. WCA for the abused woman or man, call 208-343-3688.  They have a number of resources such as a financial literacy class and a court advocate to make suggestions for how you can get further help on your legal case.

I am also familiar with a number of church denominations and would be happy to share that knowledge if you are looking for a new church home.

Here are a few questions to ask yourself before I send the official survey that you will email back to me before we do the one to one consultation.

What is your purpose in life? Do you know your top priorities in life?  What is your vision?

This concludes the introduction to the first area of Consulting for Single Parents in the area of Emotional and Spiritual Stability.  Stay tuned for the introduction to Child Rearing/Parenting.

As you can probably see, these questions and scenarios could fit any people group regardless of marital status.  My why in life is to give back to single parents.  I was helped so much as a single mom that I want to help other single parents. I have already helped a number of single parents and maybe, just maybe, I can help you, too.

Donate to Single Moms Unite!, LLC providing scholarships for Single Parents to benefit from Consulting for Single Parents 

Sincerely and

in Christ Name,

Nek’ka Migel 

Consulting for Single Parents

(moms and dads)

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Does your past help you or hinder you?

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Does your past help you or hinder you?

While I was a single mom, my background helped me to survived before I could become who I am today!

Thanks, Darren J Hardy.  Listening to your Darren Daily videos has helped me with my business practices and life in general.  Thanks for all you do to help others!

Nek’ka Migel
Single Moms Unite, LLC

 

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